New software to check chances of divorce in horoscope: Divorce Chances

     Divorce is the most feared word in a relationship. Unfortunately its a reality of life that many couples must acknowledge. Many of the clients who go through the painful procedure come to astrologers to suggest remedies and to know what future holds. Its normal for people who are under pain to wish clarity about their future. But every fighting couple should remember that divorce should only be the last resort when there is no other option available. 

     There are many cases when divorce is all but necessary especially when the spouse is abusive, physical or over-critical. At that time even courts say its fine to opt for divorce. But a lot of other times it all boils down to ego between the couple. Many divorce cases have a few misunderstandings that are blown out of proportions. That same difference could pop-up with other partner also. So why not settle those differences with your current partner?

     Most misunderstandings can be cleared by using some reasoning skills. What may appear right to a partner maybe totally wrong in other partner's school of thought. It necessary to adjust and compromise to each others likes and dislikes. If necessary one must use a marriage counselor or someone mature among family and friends who can help clear the misunderstanding in marriage.

     There are times when marriage life is unhappy due to various reasons. In those cases its better to try and list the reasons for unhappiness. Both partners should work on them and make sure divorce doesn't happen due to minor faults in one another. Other times it is due to lack of sex. In those cases its better to seek a sex therapist to bring back romance and sex in married life.

     Sometimes its necessary to try separation before pulling the trigger for divorce. To not seek any long-term relationship and just to see if as a couple they can handle staying away from each other. Most of the couples who have ego issues settle down their ego and anger after sometime. After some time there are possibilities that couple can come together again if they set aside ego and try their part to make their marriage work. 

     Marriages come with duties and obligations. Marriages involve promise to stay together come what may. Marriages entail that a person accepts both the good and bad in the partner. Marriage is no fun and games. Its a contract to stay together and share everything that comes along in the life together.

     Couple should only seek divorce if everything done to repair the relationship fails. That includes counseling, reasoning, and compromise. Unless there is abuse or over-critical or over-bearing partner its a very bad idea to divorce over small ego issues and simple misunderstandings. Sometimes partner can be unfaithful. In those cases it would be down to choice whether one wants to give the partner another chance or not. If he/she is unfaithful again and again then it would be wise to seek separation.